Some years ago I used to work for the totally fantastic erotica webzine, Oysters and Chocolate. Many of you (assuming you are as old as me!) will recall I was their regular ‘writer in residence.’ What you may not have known, is that I was the secret provider of the weekly O&C Spicy Sex Tips!!

Now O&C has gone (and is still sadly missed), I thought it might be fun to share a few of those tips with you over the coming weeks…


This tip is for those who like more ‘slap’ than ‘tickle’.

Consider the baby wipe or wet wipe. These innocent and useful articles, can be carefully placed upon the backside of your lover, and tweaked and edged into place- maybe quickly, maybe slowly… and then… spank that arse!

Slapping the backside through the moist wipe with the palm of your hand intensifies those deliciously fun spanking sessions, and takes such naughty boy / girl moments to a whole new dimension.

Even if spanking is not your thing, take time to smooth your partner all over with a beautifully cool fragranced wipe…who knows what that might lead to…


If you need further inspiration, my story ‘Wiped’ (within the anthology Best Bondage Erotica 2013) may give you some help –

Enjoy your weekend.

Kay xx

(PS- Have fun- but remember to stay safe. Be aware of allergies, personal limits, and health at all times. I want you to have a fun weekend, not a trip to A&E. xx)